How to Attract the Opposite Sex!

It is easy to attract the opposite sex, that is, when you learn how to. I'll show you women how to attract men, and you men how to attract women.

1. WHAT TO WEAR?

Whenever we go out to an event or any place to meet and mingle, we all ask this question. Why? Its because dress is very important when trying to attract the opposite sex. It tells strangers a little about us. Plus, it can give a negative or positive first impression. So, what clothing and colors attract the opposite sex?

Women if you are trying to attract men to you, wear feminine, bright colors. Preferably, pinks, and reds. Rose colors look good on most women and it says "I am beautiful. I'm a woman." Butt, be appropriate . It would not be appropriate to wear a red suit to an interview.

Here is a word about clothing. Wear the right clothes for your body. Very important. If you are on the plus side, wear clothing the make you appear slimmer. If you have great legs,wear a short skirt, shorts, dresses, etc. If you like to hide your tummy (especially new mommies) wear a shirt that flares out around the mid section, but accentuates the breast area. If you have great abs, wear form fitting shirts. There are clothes that would make any shape look more attractive.

Men, if you trying to attract women to you, make sure to wear clean clothes. Most women like men who wears suits. If you are not the type to dress up, make sure your clothes are presentable, and that it says something about your confidence and style. Women like men with a sense of style, whether it be casual clothing, jeans, or dressy.

2. STAND OUT- I MEAN THAT LITERALLY.

Stand in the center of the room. Mingle with the group, and be outgoing. You will draw the most attention and your confidence and self assuredness will stand out. There is no better way to attract the opposite sex than to show your confidence. Pace the room, as if you know exactly where your going, even if you're just going to the bar or to the restroom.

Note: If your are naturally more on the timid side, try to hold something in your hands, like a drink or a bottle of water. It will make you less fidgety, and it will calm you if you're nervous.

If you are more hestitant to stand out, try practicing how to approach people at home, in the mirror. Practice being humorous, and charming, until it becomes natural for you.

3. BODY LANGUAGE

In trying to attract the opposite sex, body language is everything. To look more approachable, keep your arms to your side, do not fold them. It says that you are defensive, and you'd rather be left alone. If you must do something, play with your hair. Guys find it inviting and attractive.

If you are sitting, cross your legs (for you guys, cross your feet) toward the opposite sex. Lean in slightly toward them, it shows interest. Do not chew your nails, or ice. It makes you appear too anxious.

Guys want to appear more dominant. Confidence is king. Make eye contact, and inviting gestures. Hold your head up and speed up your speech. It will make you appear more assertive.

As always, most importantly, remember to smile. Smiling is universally inviting.

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